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Breakups. And what it actually means when a guy just wants to be friends after dating? I mean, ending a serious relationship is quite a big deal, but what you do next can have a ificant impact on your healing process.

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Is it really possible to stay friends after a breakup? What does it mean when a guy just wants to be friends after dating? Are there any rules in order to make those post-dating friendships succeed? When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, it can be a true help for a girl, especially if she still has strong feelings for him. Heading to the friend zone immediately after you end your relationship is such a bad idea. Below, I will list a few more reasons why he just wants to be friends after dating.

He probably asked you to stay friends only because he wanted the breakup to go as smoothly as possible. When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, it probably means that he wants to keep you on the back burner. He probably wants to keep you around so he can ask you for another chance if he changes his mind about the breakup. Maybe he already met someone new and he wants to keep the door open with you if the new relationship fails.

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If he wants to end things, it has to be for good. When your ex asks you to stay friends after the breakup and you accept it, you should emphasize to him that you only want to be friends, not friends with benefits. That means occasional hookups are strictly forbidden. However, if you start that kind of relationship with your ex, there are many important rules for the friends with benefits relationship you need to follow blindly if you want to make it work.

10 things (not) to do after he gives you the ‘let’s stay friends’ talk

I think that every man does this when they are breaking up with someone. Below are a few tips that will help you deal with when a guy just wants to be friends after dating. I know, I get you because I was once in your place, too.

It was definitely one of the most confusing and hardest moments of my life. I needed time to think about everything and clear my feelings and my thoughts. And, trust me, that time helped me the most just as it will help you. Pull away and spend time with yourself because you need yourself the most right now. That quiet time will help you to come to the right decision.

How to tell him you want to be friends

We all know how bad breakups can be, and no one expects you to be fine and heal immediately. Take as much time as you need and think about your own life first, then think about your ex and whether remaining friends with him will only hold you back or help you move on faster.

Cry as much as you need.

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In order to heal completely and move on properly, you need to work on improving your self-esteem and confidence. Your breakup affected them negatively for sure. You need to understand that none of it was your fault.

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So, work on yourself and do things that make you happy. This is really a must. Whether you want to stay friends with your ex or not, your relationship has ended, and you need to heal after the breakup and move on with your life with or without your ex in it. Eat as much chocolate or ice cream as you want. Watch as many romantic movies as you want.

You must heal first because moving on before you heal would have the worst consequences on your emotional health.

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Get up from the bed and take your life by the horns. You need to sort out your thoughts and emotions.

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Sometimes, we mistook love for lustor sometimes, we think we love a person when, in fact, we just got used to them. Stop hurting yourself. There are so many other people in your life who honestly love and care for you, and you should surround yourself with them in these moments.

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Those people are the ones who count the most and you should always remember that. Partners can come and go, but friends and family will stay by your side no matter what.

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Surround yourself with your loved one and occupy yourself with things that bring happiness to your life. Enjoy the little thingsand simply live your life to the fullest. However, you need to snap out of it. Ask him how he pictured the friendship between you. Backing off is definitely the best response to his mixed als. Starting a friendship immediately after the breakup would really be a bad idea.

It would only make you both suffer. The thing is that you both could use some alone time after your romantic relationship ends and before you both decide to start a whole different kind of relationship.

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Breakups are never easy. You both need that time to clear your thoughts and your emotions, and both of you would benefit from the no contact rule. This is especially important if you still have some strong feelings for your ex.

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Time is your ally here, and it will help you to make the best decision. First of all, you need to think your decision through. Reconsider the pros and cons of staying friends with your ex. You also need to think about whether he even deserves to have any kind of place in your life. If you two were in a long-term, committed relationship, you both must be completely sure that you can stay friends after the breakup. Honestly, the truth is that two people can never become too close friends after a serious relationship.

There will always be some unresolved things and issues, and one person will always have some feelings for the other and would hope for a reconciliation. Use this quiet time to work on yourself and improve the self-confidence and self-esteem that will most assuredly be damaged after the breakup. Phone calls and text messages are allowed. And, I honestly advise you to avoid meet-ups at least for the first three months until you both get used to this new situation.

What does it mean when a guy just wants to be friends after dating? six possible reasons

Also, everything would be so much easier for the both of you if you would keep things platonic. You can be good friends and care for each other without being in touch and hanging out all the time. So, keep your friendship platonic in the beginning. It might only hold you back.

The do’s and don’ts of being friends with a guy after dating him

The same goes if you see that your ex is sending you some mixed als and that he has changed his mind and wants to get you back. You must take care of yourself and your own life. After all, you spent so much time together and you probably know each other best.

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However, there will always be some issues between you… some barriers that will never allow you to understand each other as best friends do. If you still care for each other and really want to remain friends, you should only respect and be there for each other always. You know why? Because the answers to this question depend on so many things. Does he still love you, does he still have strong feelings for you, does he want to get you back, was your breakup nasty…. Those are just a few things that affect the answer to your question above.

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You see… Men are just as complicated as women are, but they know how to hide it very well. He may be doing it because he really cares for you and wants to be friends with you at least, but he might also be doing it to get you back. At the end of the day, his reasons are not that important.

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The most important thing is how you feel about it and what you honestly want. Before making that final decision, above are some rules and things you should know concerning those post-dating friendships. Inside His Mind.